I've been asked this question often.  If it's still puzzling you, I hope this helps.

The Universal Law of Attraction states "We attract whatever we choose to give our attention to – whether wanted or unwanted".

Most of the time, we attract by ‘default’ rather than by deliberate choice.  We just sort of go through our day, focusing on problems that need to be solved or on things that didn’t feel good or seem not to be right. In doing
this we are actually creating more problems, more of what doesn't feel good and more of what doesn't seem right.

Think of yourself as a huge magnet. The kind that pulls metal to itself. It doesn't "try" to attract, it simply does attract. It is the same way for us.

Whether or not we are trying to attract, we ARE doing so all the time (except when we are asleep.)  And we attract the likeness of what we think about. If we are thinking about a lack of something, we are attracting more lack (scarcity).  If we are thinking about something we love, we are attracting more of what we love and enjoy. I know this sounds incredibly simple, and it is.

We humans are actually very powerful attractors and we can use this wonderful power to attract more of what we want in life-simply by paying attention to where we place our thoughts and desires.

An old proverb: "As a man thinks in his heart, so is he."  Proverbs 23:7  It's interesting that the writer of this proverb says "thinks in his heart" because most of the time, we believe that we think with our mind. However,
it is truly from the heart where we do our thinking, our believing.  It is from the heart that we attract.  Picture your heart as a powerful magnet.  The heart is the ' vibrator' of all signals that attract.

Think of a radio. It has many different stations. To tune into a station you dial a specific frequency. As soon as we turn our attention to something (dialed it's frequency) it begins its journey to us.

To be rid of something you don't want in your life, simply tune in to a different vibration (frequency or radio station) – to something that you do want.

Most often we think about, talk about, tell others about and focus on what we don't like or don't want, or what is worrying us. This needs to change.

I believe that the art of deliberate attraction consists of three parts:

1. Being very clear about what it is that I am wanting. Writing this down helps, so that I am literally seeing it as well as thinking it.  Put a copy on your bathroom mirror, near your computer and anywhere else you'll see it, and read it, often.

2. Concentrating on that want. Some call this – raising their vibration until it matches what they want.

3. Allowing what I want to come to me.

It's usually part three that seems to trip most people up.  Often, they have held onto some self-limiting beliefs for a very long time – so long that they no longer recognize them and yet these beliefs are still vibrating below the surface, cancelling out what they are really wanting.

Let go of all resistance and believe that what you are really wanting will come to you – simply because you want it to.  Don't overthink it.  Follow the steps.  Try it.  Need more help?  Check out "Discover The Law of Attraction".

Christine R.

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