So you want to be successful, healthy, happily married, and rich?   Do you feel like a successful, healthy, happily married, accepted, rich person?  Or are you experiencing feelings of resistance, frustration, anxiety and insecurity?

Are you feeling needy, lost, rejected and deprived?  Are you envious of what someone else has?  Do you feel guilty and identify with poverty and failure?  Are you surrounded by people who don't believe in you?

It can happen to us all.  But if you're constantly feeling negative about money, success and yourself, you are being defined by lack. If so, your wish for success will remain just that – a wish. If you continually feel depressed, annoyed, upset, and irritated with yourself or the outside world, you are generating heaps of negative vibrations. 

What if I told you that it's up to you to create an alternate future and set forces to work for you, rather then against you. Habits are like clothes… you wear them.  They fit your personality and self-image.  Some clothes make you feel like a million dollars while others make you feel fat.  So often, we wear the same old clothes just because we are used to them.  The same can be said for mental habits and feelings.

More than 90% of your thoughts and reactions were learned.  Whenever a situation arises that reminds you of the past you tend to interpret it through old emotional responses.  If you were bullied a lot as a child, you have to help yourself move through your fearful feelings every time you're reminded of the bullying. 

When you deal with your feelings and imagine your life as you'd like it to be, you're starting to heal your past memory and move into the present moment.  Instead of being reactive you become proactive!

Let's get started on turning those negative feelings around.  Here's 10 helping hands towards the life you deserve… one of prosperity and fulfilment:

1. Listen to your inner conversations.  What are your mental habits telling you?  A poverty mindset knows why things can't work out.  A successful mindset always steps up to the plate and looks for a way to work through a crisis. Start having discussions with yourself the moment you feel a hysterical reaction coming on.  If you get in the habit of intervening on your own behalf you will start to hold a correct attitude and change your emotional reactions.

2. Meet the Challenge.  If you have a melt down and lose your focus, freak out, and go into an emotional tail spin, once it's over go back to your image and refocus.  You don't have to beat yourself up because you "lost" it.  A fall out doesn't have to become a major set back.  You are learning to identify when you are vibrating from an error pattern.  Things may still scare and upset you for awhile.Y  ou are in the process of building self-trust and self-confidence. You will be able to meet an obstacle every step of the way once you develop a good relationship with your deeper Self.

3. Congratulate yourself.  Give yourself credit when you react to a negative situation as an opportunity rather then a setback.  Get in the habit of comforting and nourishing yourself when things don't go right and you'll start not to succumb to destructive emotions.  Each time you do this you'll make a deposit into your emotional security bank.  And feeling safe and secure is the vibration that attracts prosperity.  Keep investing in yourself and you will start to resonate with abundance and optimism.  Before you know it, you will start feeling entitled to having good relationships and success!

4. Throw off the old you.  If something happens that threatens your peace of mind, reassure yourself that all is well. How?  Direct all of your attention to that which is good.  Focus is the winner's companion. In time you will learn how to keep your cool when those debilitating thoughts show up.

5. Treat yourself well.  You don't need to prove that you are a failure anymore. You need to treat yourself like someone you love and care about. Once you get in the habit of feeling lovable and acceptable you will repel abusive people.

6. Let go. I t is time to clean house and surrender your concepts of lack.  Why allow negative people to scramble your brain?  Why keep reminding yourself of painful uncomfortable times?  Let go and let the Power work for you.  Let go means let go!  Make room for the money, success, healing, and fulfilling relationships you desire to be drawn to you.  You deserve to feel like you are Number 1. If you need to have a good cry, have it.  Once it's over persist in letting the "old you" go.

7. Accept Responsibility.  Make changes gradually and you will start feeling better about yourself.  Start to imagine the new you.  How many times do you need to do this?  Do it and do it and do it until you change your emotional point of attraction.

8. Commit to new results.  Keep the partnership between your conscious and subconscious mind strong and success will be your closest companion.

9. Feel like a million bucks.  Feel good. If you want to realize your dream for success, start feeling grateful about your success. Accentuate the positive and you'll build up your vibrational frequency.

10. Don't look back!   Once you have consciously imagined a new result, don't turn your attention back to your former concept of yourself.  If you do, you will reimpress yourself with what you don't want, and go back to a lower emotional frequency.  Success, health, happiness and wealth don't just pop in.  Most visionaries who are wealthy, successful, healthy, and happy have certain things in common.  These people have a certain mindset that include big dreams, good habits, imagination, strong positive beliefs, unshakable inner confidence and a connection to The Source of All That Is.

They don't just "talk the talk, they walk the walk".   Be like them… use spiritual principles to attract positive outcomes by focusing your conscious mind and absorb new ideas until you feel entitled to the gift of a new experience.  You'll start to love and enjoy the adventure of life.  You'll attract money, opportunities, good people, and harmonious situations that reflect your new mindset.

The only thing standing between you and the fulfilment of your dreams is an opposing belief and feeling… not bad luck or a past life.   If you truly want to bring the object of your thoughts into manifestation you have to make a conscious decision to get in the habit of feeling prosperous, happy, grateful, accepted, healthy, loved and successful… here and now.

I really hope this works for you.  If you truly try your best with these ten steps and it doesn't appear to be working for you, then perhaps you need the more detailed help that's available at DiscoverTheLawOfAttraction.com

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Remember… there is no-one to change but yourself and no-one can do it but you.  Good luck.

Christine R

 

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